The earlier intervention after experiencing a traumatic event, the better.
Trauma Therapy for Kids & Teens in Purcellville, VA
Services available virtual (teens only) through the state of VA
Trauma therapy for kids & teen can help them to process feelings, body sensations, thoughts, imagery and beliefs before they start to develop unhealthy coping strategies and before their negative neural pathways become too rooted in beliefs of feeling incapable, worthy, unsafe, etc.
In my work with kids and teens working through trauma, I incorporate EMDR & Brainspotting therapies with play and art therapy. This allows my clients to process their traumas in a safe way; allowing negative thinking to clear and making more room for positive or helpful thoughts and adaptive thinking.
Does This Sound Like You?
A child who could benefit from trauma therapy may be experiencing:
Anxiety and fear
Nightmares or sleep problems
Flashbacks or intrusive memories
Irritability and anger
Depression and withdrawal
Hypervigilance (feeling constantly on guard)
Difficulty concentrating at school
Trauma Therapy for Kids & Teens in Purcellville, VA can help!
What if you could go from…
Feeling anxious and fearful to
Utilizing tools to calm and regulate their mind and body.
Difficulty at bedtime or having nightmares to
Getting more restful sleep and having more energy.
Flashbacks, intrusive thoughts or hypervigilance to
Lessening of the frequence and intensity and reactiveness of these thoughts and images.
Being easily irritable and angered to
Less anger and less intense outbursts, shorter recovery times, and utilizing coping strategies.
Appearing withdrawn and depressed to
Showing much interest and acting like their prior to trauma self.
Meet Your Purcellville Kids Trauma Therapist Kellie Tucker Boyle
Step 1.
Put words to what’s changing.
We’ll start with history taking to understand how anxiety shows up in your thoughts, body, and daily life.
Step 2.
Rediscover what matters.
Then, we’ll start working on and practicing practical skills to manage anxiety, regulate your nervous system, and feel more grounded and in control.
Step 3.
Move forward with intention.
Finally, we’ll uncover patterns such as overthinking, avoidance, and perfectionism—and how they can reinforce anxiety. This will also be paired with mindset work and start to uncover the negative core beliefs that are paired with your anxiety.
About Me
Meet Your Purcellville Kids Trauma Therapist Kellie Tucker Boyle
Hi, I’m Kellie, a Licensed Professional Counselor who helps children & teens heal trauma or major events & transitions in early life. Trauma for kids or teens could be death of a loved one, hospital stay or medical challenges, car accident, dog bite, kids of divorce, unstable home environments, absent parenting, frequent moves or illness.
Trauma can show up in many different ways for kids and teens—through changes in behavior, trouble sleeping, difficulty concentrating, big emotions, irritability, fear, withdrawal, or challenges at home and school. Sometimes, they may not have the words to explain what they’re feeling, but their behavior can be a way of communicating that something doesn’t feel right.
When a young person has experienced something difficult, they may begin to see themselves or the world differently, and it can be hard for them to know how to process what happened. Therapy can give them a space to make sense of their experiences, develop healthy coping skills, build emotional confidence, and learn that what happened to them does not have to define who they are. My goal is to build trust at their pace, help them feel more secure by giving them helpful tools, process their emotions, memories, and thoughts related to the trauma; so they can go confidently back into living the lives they were meant to live.
Kellie Tucker Boyle, LPC,
EMDRIA Certified Therapist in Purcellville, VA.
Reprocess Therapy
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What types of experiences can trauma therapy help with?
Trauma can look different for every child. Therapy may be helpful following experiences such as abuse, neglect, loss, accidents, medical trauma, bullying, family violence, divorce or separation, community violence, or other experiences that have left a child feeling overwhelmed, unsafe, or changed.
2. How do I know if my child or teen has been affected by trauma?
Children and teens may respond to difficult experiences in many different ways. You might notice changes in mood, behavior, sleep, school performance, relationships, emotional regulation, or sense of safety. Some children become more anxious or withdrawn, while others may become more irritable, angry, reactive, or have difficulty concentrating.
3. Does my child have to talk about what happened?
No. Your child does not have to share details before they are ready. Trauma-informed therapy focuses on creating safety and building trust first. Depending on your child’s age, needs, and comfort level, therapy may incorporate play, creative activities, conversation, movement, or other approaches that allow them to process difficult experiences without having to repeatedly retell or relive them.
4. What does trauma therapy look like for teens?
With teens, therapy may involve more direct conversation while still honoring their need for autonomy and privacy. I may work on understanding emotions and triggers, developing coping strategies, strengthening relationships, processing difficult experiences, and building a greater sense of safety and control.
5. Will I be involved in my child’s therapy?
Parent and caregiver involvement can be an important part of therapy, particularly for younger children. Depending on your child’s age and needs, sessions may include parent check-ins, caregiver support, or opportunities to learn ways to support your child at home. I aim to balance caregiver involvement with your child’s need for a safe and developmentally appropriate space of their own.
6. How do you make therapy feel safe for a child who doesn't want to go?
I don’t expect children to immediately open up or feel comfortable. Building trust takes time. I meet children where they are, follow their pace, and use developmentally appropriate ways to connect and communicate. The therapeutic relationship itself is an important part of the healing process.
7. What if the trauma happened a long time ago?
It is never too late to seek support. Children and teens can be affected by difficult experiences months or even years later, particularly when new developmental stages or life circumstances bring old experiences to the surface. Therapy can help them make sense of what they have experienced and develop new ways of coping.
8. Can trauma therapy help with anxiety, anger, or emotional outbursts?
Yes. Trauma can sometimes show up as anxiety, irritability, anger, emotional outbursts, avoidance, difficulty concentrating, or changes in behavior. Therapy can help children and teens better understand what is happening beneath these responses and develop healthier ways to manage big emotions and stressful situations.
9. What is the cost of your sessions? Do you take insurance?
My intake fee is $255/hour. My 55 minute sessions are $215 and 45 minute sessions are $190. For children & teens, I typically do 45 minute sessions.
No, I do not submit insurance directly and am considered an out of network provider. I provide a monthly superbill to clients by request. Most of my clients get close to full or partial reimbursement from their insurance providers. You can use my free benefits checker on the fees page to see an estimate of what you will get back from your insurance company.
Trauma Informed Therapies sometimes used with kids & teens:
EMDR & Brainspotting therapy services are grounded in the belief that your mind and body hold the wisdom to heal, and that with the proper facilitation, your brain is set up to naturally heal itself. I’m here to guide you in processing painful memories & negative beliefs, calming your nervous system, and building self-trust along the way.
IFS Therapy or “Parts Work”.
IFS helps children and teens get to know the different “parts” of themselves—the part that worries, the part that gets angry, the part that wants to hide, or the part that tries to keep everything under control. Instead of judging these parts, we approach them with curiosity and compassion, helping young people understand what they need and why they respond the way they do. Over time, this can create greater emotional flexibility, self-understanding, and a stronger sense of safety within themselves.
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Trauma Therapy for Kids & Teens In Purcellville, VA Can Help.
Early intervention prevents unhealthy coping strategies from developing.